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Shake The Dust
Can you text me twice a day?

Anonymous

how about a pickup line.

most girls call me frankie but you can just call me tonight.

heyoooo

God I would hate to date a guy that only texted me twice a day. When you're in love with someone you want to tell them everything, or just let them know you're thinking about them. Jesus, be a little more affectionate.

Anonymous

Let me know how talking to someone all day works out for you. Boredom is a thing, and it does happen.

Absence makes the heart grow fonder.

It’s not like you’re ignoring them forever. You are just avoiding useless conversation.

Call me crazy, but I want my conversations to actually mean something when I have them. 

Words are important to me. I don’t like to just give them out.

Any good books you recommend ? I'm going crazy without a good book

Anonymous

Flowers For Algernon or It’s Kind of a Funny Story are both great.

My boyfriend lives an hour away so I usually only get to see him on weekends. We've been dating for almost 9 months but lately he's been really distant.. He does really make as much time as he used to for me, we talk maybe for a couple hours throughout everyday.. And he's been less affectionate... Like if I want to hold hands he pulls away.. I've asked him if still likes me & wants to be with me.. He says he does.. But it doesn't feel that way :(

Anonymous

I get what you’re saying. 

One thing I notice about a lot of couples is that they talk to each other too much. On paper, that doesn’t seem possible, but I’ll explain myself.

When I date girls, I text them twice a day, right?

Once in the morning, to tell them good morning and all that good stuff.

Then I text them at night, right before we go to bed. I ask how their day was, and we recap the entire day. I do this for two reasons.

  • This keeps the conversations moving. There are no useless messages being sent, and we aren’t wasting any time.
  • And it prevents you from getting bored with this person. Texting someone pointlessly throughout the day will cause you to get bored of someone very quickly.

Ask yourself this. Look at your parents (assuming they’re married). Do they text each other throughout the day? No, I would guess not. If they did, they would have nothing to talk about when they see each other, and they’d be very unsatisfied with each other. 

This isn’t really a habit that you can just break overnight, unfortunately. When I begin talking to a girl (this doesn’t happen often, but when it does…), I make it a habit to only text them twice a day. Then they never expect anything different.

Anyways, as for him not being affectionate..

It sounds to me like he is getting bored, but he is too afraid to end anything. That is my best guess.

Hope this makes sense.

i feel the same way as you!! but im in high school so its different. high school sucks and i want so badly to do well in school because theres so much pressure and i hate my life right now. i really do.

Anonymous

I know the feeling. I’m infinitely glad to be out of high school. High school sucked for me. College is a little better, but not enough for me to enjoy it.

why is life so confusing i have no idea what im doing 100% of the time idk what to do

Anonymous

You’re not alone. I have no idea what to do with my life. I recently reenrolled in school, and I’m kind of regretting it. I don’t like having my life set in stone. I want to be able to change it.

I don’t want my life to be a textbook. I want it to be a bunch of short stories.

Im back h.a

Anonymous

haha i think i just shit my pants, can i get into yours? please date me